When should your child first see a dentist? (and why it’s not that scary)

First tooth = First Dental Visit

The first dental visit should ideally be when their first tooth erupts, or by age one, whichever comes first. Although that sounds early, it’s not because problems are expected - it's because an early, relaxed visit to the dentist gives you the chance to ask questions before things like teething and tooth-cleaning get tricky, and helps your child get used to the dental clinic (think sights and sounds).

“The first dental visit is simply an introduction and for information. See it as a fun excursion for you and your child.” - Dr Bill Madytianos

Waiting until your child is older, or until there’s a problem, such as pain or a knocked tooth, can make the first visit stressful for you, your child and the dentist. Starting early means the first experience is a calm one. 

What happens at a first visit

The dentist will aim to make it a fun appointment. Here’s what usually happens:

• The dentist says hello and takes a brief look at your child’s teeth, gums and jaw (if your child lets them!). This is often done with your child in the pram or on your lap, whichever they’re more comfortable with.

• If the dentist needs a closer look, they may use a “lap-to-lap” position, where you and the dentist sit knee to knee with your child lying across both your laps so they feel safe and secure (they can see you at all times). 

• You’ll be shown how to clean your child’s teeth and what to use.

• You can ask about teething, dummies, feeding habits and anything else you’ve been wondering about.

• The dentist may show you how to “lift the lip” so you can keep an eye on new teeth and see how well you’re cleaning them.

How to make it go well

• Go when your child is rested and fed.

• Choose an appointment time separate from yours so they aren't sitting there watching and getting nervous, or alternatively waiting a long time after their appointment for yours to finish.

• Don't worry if they cry or won't open wide. It's very common, and the dentist will have seen it many times (maybe by the third visit they’ll be opening wide and ready for a clean!)

Where should I take my child for their first dental visit?

Any oral health practitioner can see your child for a first visit, including oral health therapists, general dentists and paediatric dental specialists.

It doesn’t have to be the clinic you go to yourself. Choose wherever you and your child will feel most comfortable. Finding an appropriate ‘dental home’ for them is an important part of the process.

Children up to the age of 12 years are eligible for free or low-cost public dental care in Victoria. Refer to your state/territory government website to learn more. There is also a government-run scheme, the Child Dental Benefits Schedule, which provides a subsidy (of over a thousand dollars!) to eligible children for general dental care at both public and most private dental clinics. Private dental clinics accept children of all ages, with some clinics being eligible for claiming a rebate through private health insurance. See the resources section for more information on accessing dental services.

Looking for more? Tools for Teeth covers every stage from first tooth to first visit, with step-by-step guidance for tricky moments. [Buy the book]

Want to learn even more? Come to one of Dr Bill’s free oral health sessions. [See where we’re talking next]

Written and reviewed by Dr Bill Madytianos 14/10/2026